Janet Marie Lugo

Janet Marie Lugo, in her younger years affectionately known as "Cat Eyes," departed this world at her beloved home in East Chicago on November 22, 2025, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of all who had the privilege to know her. Born on July 11, 1957, her journey through life was nothing short of vibrant, threaded with many experiences that showcased her many talents and boundless spirit.

Janet was a true jack of all trades, embracing each role she undertook with an infectious enthusiasm. An amateur boxer whose tenacity matched her spirit, she seamlessly transitioned as a business owner for a painting company and a corner store. Her compassionate soul led her to serve as secretary for St. John Cantius Church prior to its closure. She created and was head of a Summer Outreach Program for kids in the neighborhood. She spent her later years as a patient companion at St. Catherine's hospital. Most profoundly, for the last two decades of her life, she devoted herself to caring for her mother, Eloisa De La Cruz, a task that defined her unwavering commitment to family.

Throughout her life, Janet was an architect of cherished memories. Winter days were transformed into magical moments as she whipped up hot chocolate and homemade donuts, creating an intimate warmth that enveloped her family. Her culinary expertise was highlighted by her signature turkey tamales in chile verde, a dish that became a staple at family gatherings, bringing everyone together. She spent many days in the kitchen dancing, singing, and being silly with her family creating laughter and love into every creation.

Janet had the gift of making even the simplest of moments extraordinary. She was eccentric, loud, bold, and unapologetic about it all. She had a wicked sense of humor and always lightened the mood with her jokes. She spread joy into the lives of all she touched. Above all, she was a pillar of kindness and thoughtfulness, embodying a love so profound it became the bedrock of her family's existence. Janet was not just a mother- she was a role model and a hero to her daughters and granddaughter.

She attended Riley Elementary, Block Junior High, and graduated from Washington High School before pursuing further studies at the community college in San Francisco. Her passion was found gardening, crafting, baking, and creating herbal remedies for everything and anything. Janet meticulously crafted memory books, capturing special moments for her family.

Amidst those who remain to honor her legacy are Eloisa De La Cruz, her mother; Louis De La Cruz and his wife, Lucia; Hilda Aleman and her husband, Miguel; Rita De La Cruz, Ula De La Cruz, along with many beloved nieces and nephews; her beloved partner, Javier Patiño; daughters Tasha De La Cruz and Estrella Rivera, and her husband, Ariel; and her two precious grandchildren, Luna and Ariel Damian. Each of them carry forward the warmth of her love and the strength of her spirit.

Janet now joins her departed family members, Inez Davids, her dear aunt, and her brothers, Paul and Pete "Jumbe" De La Cruz. Together, they form a constellation of memories that will guide her loved ones through the days ahead.

As we reflect upon the life of Janet Marie Lugo, we are reminded of the tremendous joy and love she imparted upon the world. Her legacy is one of laughter, resilience, and unwavering devotion, a beautiful reminder of the impact one soul can have in the lives of so many. Though her physical presence may no longer grace our gatherings, her spirit lives on in the stories we tell, the memories we share, and the love that binds us all.

Per Janet's wishes a Private Cremation has taken place.

A Celebration of Life Mass will be held Saturday, December 13th, at 10:00 AM at St. Patrick’s Church, 3802 Grand Blvd, East Chicago, IN 46312.